those times

* there are times when you want to avoid doing certain mistakes and ignoring the friends you wanted to keep close forever, but you keep failing'. 

* there are times when you want to plan everything and be predictive, but you realize life is so unexpected that you just have to live by her rules and your ability to embrace what is given. 

* there are times when you ask yourself how can you be prepared for the great things in life, I still wonder...